Unfortunately, I believe that too many of us has that one
friend (maybe two) that would rather settle for an un-fulfilling relationship
than be alone. When you truly care about that friend it hurts you to see them
being treated that way. What I wonder is if those women are even aware that
they are being used.
1. You Pay Every Time You Go Out
Take out, you pick it up and pay. Going out, you cop the
bill. Vacations, you front the expenses. Bottom line, he is pimping you. When a
man allows or asks you to bite the costs ALL THE TIME it is a tell-tale sign
that you are being used. Say “no” just one time and watch his response.
2. He’s Only Available When He Needs Something from You
Your car broke down and he told you to call AAA…unacceptable.
His car breaks down and he is seen around town driving the gas out and running
up the miles on your car.
3. Financially Dependent on You
He lives with you – rent free. Okay, let’s say that he doesn’t
live with you but is just over all the time. Guess who is saving on bills in
this situation. Why go grocery shopping if he can always depend on you to feed
him? I’m not saying to never ever cook
for your man but don’t empty out your savings taking care of him.
4. You Are His Convenience
“Never make someone a priority when you are just an option” –
Know that! Holidays are not spent with you because it’s not convenient for him.
Any woman that matters to her man will matter on important days. Did you meet
his mom on some random day but never got invited to a family event? There is
meaning behind that. Think about it.
5. Emotional Blackmail
He didn’t get promoted at work, how is that your fault? It’s
not but he found a way to blame you. He cheated and you found yourself apologizing.
This relationship is a dead-end, let it go!
6. He Never Buys You Anything
If he only buys you something once every two years, you are
being used. If he promises to buy you something and you never see it – the other
woman got it. Unless some crazy financial situation is going on, there is no
excuse. Every man knows it is important to buy his woman a gift.
7. He Doesn’t Need You for Anything but Things That He Needs
He needed a place to stay while he “got on his feet” and you
gave it to him, he needed a car to drive because he wrecked his and you gave it
to him, he needed money for rent because his check was low and you gave it to
him….notice a trend here?
8. He Never Takes Your Feelings into Consideration
When a man cares deeply for you, he never wants to see you
hurt or disappointed.. If your mate routinely makes you have negative feelings –
he is not the man you should be wasting precious time over. Stop before it’s
too late. Growing old and alone is not what you want
Do you know of anyone being used in a relationship?
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you realize right this moment that you are the one being using,
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