Thursday, January 3

"To be loved, to be loved! Oh, what a feeling, To be loved!"



This past weekend I saw my husbands love for me really put into action. He tells me loves me often, buys me gifts, and does things for me without being asked - I know he loves me. However, last weekend was different.

While on our journey of trying to conceive (TTC) we found out that my tubes were jacked all up and down. They were useless - yes "were." I had surgery to have them completely removed so that we can proceed with IVF.

Throughout the entire process my husband never left my side. When I was discharged to go home he truly catered to me and did every and anything he could to make me feel better. I have not had anyone care for me that much since I was a child and I had the flu. My heart was bursting with love.

This entire ordeal has caused me to see my husband in a different light. He is an awesome man and I know he will be an awesome father. We have talked more than once about his role as the man of our home. His duties include being my protector, my provider, and loving me unconditional. He is my Boaz. I appreciate him greatly for taking his role seriously.

Ladies, when you are looking for a man to settle down with, it is qualities like these that matter. As women, we spend so much time nurturing and caring for others but what happens when we are the ones that need nurturing?

When was the last time you were shown TRUE love? 
Talk about it.



Post title: Lyrics from "To Be Loved" by Jackie Wilson

1 comment:

  1. Some friends and I were just talking about not settling in relationships. Sounds like you've got a good one. Cherish it!

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